Listening to: Oprah
Alright Honey, listen up.
First of all, if you're going to be condescending, and say honey, at least spell it right. "Hunny" is from Winnie the Pooh, and I hate to be the one to tell you this, but you're in the real world now, not the hundred acre wood; and in the real world, there is this little thing called good and respectful behavior.
In your work, in your marriage, in your every day life, if you go mouthing off to everyone you meet simply out of boredom, do you know what happens? You will get fired. You will be divorced. You will not have any friends. You've got one out of the three going for you, I suggest you work on this before two. Yes Kayla, Mike loves you, but use him as a doormat often enough, and I don't think even he could take it.
And yes, Kayla I am mature enough to use your name, instead of just alluding to it.
See, the whole problem with this thing is, you've never seen me angry before. Yes, you have seen me in a fit of passion, where I declare my hatred for all things related to school, or my mother, or my recently ex-boyfriend, etc. But after all that, a few hours later, I am calm. And I have figured out that when I was on the losing side of the argument, there was usually some good reasoning behind it. And I am mature enough to accept that, and move on with my life. I am mature enough to know when I am wrong.
Unfortunately, you are not. You seem to enjoy letting things fester, and then, exploding about them later. Which is so very 13 of you.
But alas, I digress.
You have, again unfortunately, crossed the line. The line, that I may add, nobody has ever crossed before. So congratulations. You are the first person to ever be called an ex friend. You are also the first person to earn a permanent ban on my AIM list. But I suppose this is not surprising. You are indeed the whiniest person I have ever met, along with the most selfish. A little bit of selfishness is alright, indeed it is needed, for if you are not selfish, and take time for yourself, I am quite sure that people would not be very functional. But the degree of selfishness you possess unto yourself is truly astonishing. The fact that you seem to be proud of that fact is even more astonishing. Let me tell you this, once you exit your little bubble of a world, you will soon see the error of your ways. At least, I can only hope.
And boredom is not a good reason for doing things. If you think someone is going to think that it is funny that you did this out of boredom, you are sorely mistaken. Countries do not bomb each other because they are bored and if they did, you have to expect that consequences would follow. Kayla, I am sorry to inform you of this, but. You are WW2 Germany.
Ah, but I digress yet again.
Anyways, as I stated before, you have not seen me in a true state of anger. You don't know what I can do, and Honey I can do a lot. The Allies always win.
So here is my issue.
You apologize. Seeing as that is what you so often demand from other people, for "hurting you" even though you brought upon most of the hurt for being insensitive, and entirely without tact in going about your ideas and opinions. Yes, you are entitled to your opinions, and free speech is in effect, especially on the internet. What you are not entitled to is the forcing of your opinion on somebody else, anybody else. Just because we do not agree does not make me an "idiot". It does not make John an "idiot". And doing that, if you must know, is one of my pet peeves. Hypocrites is the second, and my darling dearest ex-friend, you are the biggest hypocrite I have ever met. You get to have your say in my life, but when I say something, I'm not allowed to say anything about yours? Somehow, that doesn't strike me as fair. But of course, what do you know about fair?
Let us not forget that your entire life up until now has apparently been hell. Your parents sucked, and it was just completely unbearable.
But sweetie, let me tell you something. Life sucks. Get used to it. You can hold onto it, and use it as an thin excuse for being rude, and in your face, but that's all it is. An excuse. Your life wasn't perfect. Nobodys life is perfect. Mine is sometimes far from it. You are perfectly entitled to down days, and the like, nobody is happy all the time. But you have a choice here. You can wallow in this for the rest of your life, or you can rise above it. Great people have come out of the worst circumstances, far worse than yours. I implore you to look at them for an example. Otherwise, I'm afraid you won't get very far.
Let me list some things you should work on. I have been stewing over this for quite a while, but until now, you have never served to make me angry enough to say them all out in the open.
-Hypocrisy. Really. We can see through it, and we don't like it.
-Spelling. When in a serious conversation, about serious things, screaming "eet" doesn't exactly get across a serious facade. It's not mature. Please don't do it.
-Spelling. People spell things correctly on the site all the time. Do try to follow their example, or you'll never get into college.
-Ego. Deflate it. We get it, you think you are the HBIC. Unfortunately enough dearie, no, you're not. You are not smarter than me. You barely got out of high school. And yet you think you have the god given right to tell me how to do my homework? No. Actually, you do not. If I had asked for help from the SC in keeping me on track for homework, then your little folly would've been perfectly acceptable. It obviously was not.
-Get your subjects straight. A major in geology does not entitle you to belittle us about the environment especially considering that you haven't even entered college yet. Also, meteorology doesn't have much to do with the environment either. So until you take environmental studies and complete the course, please don't assume that you're right and we're wrong. Because you're not. Because guess what? I took an environmental geography course. And finished it.
So my dear, all of this can be fixed with two words. I'm sorry. Because for once in your life, you need to stand up, and take responsibility for your actions. This won't be acceptable out there in the real world. We're just trying to tell you this.
Also, that conversation the other night? Even though I did a lot of swearing, and said some pretty regrettable things...
I still came off looking better than you. See, the thing is this time, I am right.
So Kayla darling, here's the thing. Yes, you do have to grow up. No, you are not more mature than I am. If you were, I would be able to post all of this on the SC, so that everybody would know what was going on. Unfortunately, I know that the moment I do, you'll be there with your undeserved mod powers to delete it. Just as you delete everything that doesn't agree with your opinion. Go ahead, leave a comment on here. I won't delete it, but I know you would delete mine.
And even if you do straighten up enough to realize that what you have done, and what you have said was wrong, unfair and hypocritical to the extreme, I don't think you can repair the situation this time. Usually, I am perfectly willing to accept an apology, even from those that have hurt me far worse than you. But there is something about this that I can't seem to put my finger on; You have somehow done worse then all of them. I am not sure how you managed this, but congratulations to you all the same.
Of course, I'm sure we'll be hearing about this in a few weeks, when you write yet another blog telling the world how you can't seem to keep friends. You want to know why?
This is why.
Katey once told you that you were a disease.
She was right.