Listening to: Sia - Breathe Me
Continue June 4, 2009 date with Turkey man.
aka Gokhan, aka Yo Haun, aka creep.
Soo last nights date was...horrible.
First of all, he can't drive worth beans. I thought I was gonna die like 10 times. There's those drivers who think they know what they're doing that ppl get pissed off at, and then those that are honestly ignorant of their actions. He would be the ignorant one. He sees what he wants and swerves to get to it, no matter vehicle, let alone peds.
He just wanted to stare at me and talk. I told him either I drive or he stop talking and focus on the road.
After the life threatening turn into Pei Wei chinese/asian restaurant, he sat at dinner and basically stared at me the whole time. He had his hands on me in the line. o.O Kind of awkward eating with someone starin at you. But he did eat a little bit.
Then I drove us to the theatre in Sugarhouse.
He likes to talk so ... I suggested a movie, to limit talking. And we ran into the 7:15 showing of Fast and Furious at 7:17. He had a lack of communication skills with the cashier. So I interrupted to clear it up. We were in a hurry! Then came the awkward attempts at hand holding. Oy. Really? Already? Seriously?
So the hand holding was awkward....then came the staring instead of watching the movie. He's seen it before but that doesn't mean...he should stare at me the whole time. He randomly kissed me throughout the movie. The hand, the cheek, the ear, the head. That got annoying quickly. From the people in front of us, it prolly sounded like we were macking out back there. He tried to put his head on my shoulder which didn't work cuz I'm too short.
I felt like if the armrest wasn't there this kid could like mold himself to me, be in the exact position as me and yet be attached to my whole body. Anyway...
THEN he tried to kiss me. On the lips. During the movie. On a first date. I met him yesterday. Hello!?!
So after that I was done.
We were gonna see another movie but I ended the night early. I still had his keys, mwhaha. At the end of the movie I said I was done and going home. And...so I drove myself home.
The whole time I was driving myself home in his car he was telling me he wanted to be friends. I thought we were... Then he said bf/gf kind of friends. May I remind you this is the first date? Do I need to mention that I don't even know him?! Can I add that I was hesitate to go on a date with such a stranger trusting him to take me home safely, and THAT hasn't even happened?
Basically I told him I wasn't going out with him again. He figured it was cuz he tried to kiss me. Its way more than that, but sure. Then he went into the blubbering, begging, pathetic, "Please" talk. It's really...pathetic when guys do that. Esp those that you don't know. But I knew if it starts out inappropriate, it ain't gonna get any better from there. See I did learn something from my past dating experience? So I learned that I needed to end it NOW.
He thought that he deserved a second chance with the not kissing me issue. I told him I forgave him, but that doesn't mean I have to give more opportunties for him to prove that he wont. I just won't give him the chance to kiss me again.
I don't really wish to date RM's cuz of the whole "hey yer a girl; marry me" attitude. By the end of the night he was telling me how I was the "right one". He finally found the "right one". And again, from my planet, for a relationship to be right both parties need to agree on the fact, and frankly, this is a one sided opinion!!
It was slightly flattering considering it was coming from a crazy man. But yeah... it can only go so far. Came home at 10:00 and Grandma wasn't even back from Daniels Graduation yet. But I wasn't gonna go through another movie with him like that. Nope. Done. I told him I might see him around Coffee Break sometimes, left his car and him standing in the middle of the street still begging, and went home with free food. Whee.
Note to self: Avoid Coffee Break for a few weeks. Or altogether. Think maybe after a couple of weeks he'll just forget all about it? The whole "love of his life" and the "right one" junk wiped clean after like 2 weeks? Move onto to next right person? Yeah, didn't think so. Dang. Ruined my hang out place.
I swear, like Adam, he's gay, he just doesn't know it.
Yeah. Okay. We're done. Bye bye now!
I'm reminded why I don't date.