Listening to: Matt Nathanson - Bent
I get kicked out the of the condo the week of my birthday.
I turn 23 and I move back to Gmas for my limbo of two months before Mindy moves and I can move in her house. Not the greatest feeling in the world.
I finally asked when I'm getting kicked out of the condo. Everyone at church kept asking if I was moving cuz Erin was getting married and I'm like...uh, I dunno, she hasn't told me her plans yet. I wondered if they knew something I didnt know? So I went home and asked her. She definitely had her mind made up and was pritti blunt about it as she said "I dont want you here when I get back from my honeymoon. You have the week of my honeymoon to move out." I'm like "great...thanks for sharing, when did you plan on telling me this?" two weeks before the wedding? Slightly annoyed with her one track mind. ditziness? inconsiderate ways? She said she thought she had told me already. I wanted to wait it out and see if she ever told me and then be like "Well I cant be out in two weeks, I need more notice than that sorry" mwhaha
She is totally not comfortable with the idea of me in the house when she's married which is understandable cuz that would be totally weird for me too, but I dont feel she was as considerate as she...could've been. She just promptly kicked me out in her head with no input or...telling me for that matter. I say 'kicked out' cuz thas what it feels like. Even if I had a year contract she'd boot me. And she was trying to get another roommate. If that roommate actually showed up like she was supposed to Erin would just kick her out two months later that would be rude. We have contracts here dear. Erin doesn't even want to live in the condo after she's married, too big and too expensive, so it sounds like she's gonna ditch her grandparents contract too. Sacrifices are to be made dear for -someone-! Be considerate to and keep at least one promise/contract you made.
I'm easily annoyed on my period.
I just happened to sit by/near the girls that talk and giggle throughout all the meetings at church. -_- totally annoying. No respect. But in RS we got to color and have treats. It was awesome! Best RS time ever! It was on service so we color some puzzles for the kids to put together.
Weird things are going on. My bank called my home phone on Fri and Dad told me on Sat and Mom told me on Sun, but why didn't anyone tell me on Fri after they called? Its simple really, they called at 5 and then two minutes later you call ME and tell me so I can call them right back. Maybe the bank just left a message. I have a feeling I didnt sign my check I deposited, but my money went through so I'm not too worried.
Then I got some mail from my health insurance saying I have an outstanding balance of like 18.37? Where did that amount come from? I pay an even like $176 a month, how did I miss $18 of that? They threaten to cancel insurance and tell you the long process to renew yer insurance. I'm thinking, after the sliding car accidents today, Feb is not a good time to lose health insurance. So I just paid my monthly $176 or something and hoped that fixed the problem.
I asked Dad to use my $100 to pay the phone bill (preferably when it was due the 16th) and he put the money in his bank over the weekend and I'm not sure he even has the intention to use it for the phone bill...at least...anytime soon. And I'm still working on trying to get that stupid $100 rebate. I mailed it last week....
The week of my birthday is everyones Spring Break (hence the honeymoon). I still have work. Min wants to take me and the boys to a hotel in Park City (she gots a coupon thingy) sometime that week and then I can hire her and her truck services to help me move. I figger she'll be moving her stuff around so I'll wait until she's out of the house before I move into it.
Evan and I played games again with his roommates. I'm getting used to playing games and learning new ones every time, not so good at actually winning, but I play. Accomplishments. Then afterward I started wrestling with Evan. That kid is strong. I dont know why I keep calling him kid. Mmmm he is strong though... it was kinda hot. And he fought me for like two hours almost, it was amazing and the total highlight of my weekend! I even let him sleep after that. I love Sunday wrestling. Yes Dal, I still miss it.
Then I woke up with a kitty on top of me! eeee Made the morning lots better. It rained and snowed last night so the water froze and I couldnt open my door and the streets were like that too, frozen water so very slippery. Evan got on the freeway a few mins before me and witnessed some accidents and called me to tell me to be careful on the freeway. It was cute.
Oh and meeting his rents on Sat morning for breakfast... They are -so- cute! Evan was saying his mother has a furrowed brow so it makes her look angry all the time or something, but when she smiled it like lit up her whole face and was very contagious. It took a bit more effort to get his dad to smile enough to show his teeth, but when he did, man it was just...cute. Well, Evan wasn't the....nicest person to be around at that table. He seemed very cold and distant. I guess they had a falling out a year ago. So his dad was kinda drowning coming up with things to talk about. He started off with politics, went to genelogy...and we kinda ended with gardening? He asked a few questions about me but not the usual interest/questions/interrogation you'd expect. I ordered an omlet. Mushrooms and cheese and tomatoes and peppers and onions with egg.... I was in heaven dispite the slight awkwardness between him and his rents. He didn't have much input and just smiled and nodded most of the time, well, he nodded. He only mentioned religious things cuz thas all his rents want to hear about anyways.... Then he like got up and left and I standing there with his rents awkardly saying "well...goodbye?" But he waited at the door for us and walked ahead of them to his car while I continued the goodbyes and safe travels. I have an idea what Loryn feels like now with Dal not being so...family oriented. I thought they were nice. I could tell how desperately they just wanted....to see their son, to not be totally cut off from his life.... I think I saw that more than them judging me.
Afterwards we went to Nickelcade. My first time. It was fun. Air hockey. Snowmobiles. Race cars. DDR. Deal or No Deal. Pinball. Prizes and candy. Loved it. Then we hung out at my place for awhile til he went into work for a few hours. I tried to sleep but had some whacked out dreams. Then we went to the movies and had our dinner of popcorn, bananas, and sugar candy. We had not eaten since breakfast. Then we went to Gandolfo's and had a sandwhich. yay for real food that we didn't have to pay for. Then I decided we should take up Brians offer and went to Brians theatre (Off Broadway Theatre) for their All Star show. So we went downtown and got our free tickets and sat in on the last 30 minutes of Phantom of the OBT and then a couples hours of comedy from Laughing Stock til midnight. That was kinda awesome. It made me laugh a lot and I loved seeing him laugh and noticed the kinds of things he laughed at.
Afterwards I kept talking about his problem with two girls. He feels he has to lie or make excuses in order to switch hanging out with both us girls. He lied to Lacie in order to be with me and that makes me wonder what he would've said to me in order to hang with Lacie. I told him to just straight up tell me "I'm hanging with Lacie" Its not a big deal, theres no need to lie or make excuses if you cant/dont want to do something with me at a particular time. He can lie to Lacie all he wants, but I feel bad that he..feels he has to, but I dont want him to lie to me. I have a feeling Lacie is dictating his schedule and he goes along with it until she's busy or theres a holiday or something he wants to spend with me, then he'll actually stand up and....make an excuse to deviate from her schedule. How sad. And I've been on Lacies side, I know what its like. My friend gets a gf and suddenly he cant talk to me anymore? What the hell? So I dont want him to shun her, but I dont want him to lie to me either.
It was an awesome date night that I was extremely proud of mainly cuz it was free tho. But we like literally spent the whole day together, cept for when he went to work, and we were actually -doing- something the whole time practically. It was amazing and none of it cost that much. This guy is actually -dating- me! And he wrestles with me...... Totally awesome!