Honestly, I dont think this whole 'friends' is gonna turn out well.
I mean I wont like ignore him or stop talking to him, but I dont think I'll initiate anything.
First I don't think his gf will really let him ever see me, which is okay with me, cuz when he does see me all he does is try to cuddle me or flirt with me or kisses on the cheek or weird things...
(Side note: I am still that girl? That girl that boys dont want to be with or choose not to be with, but yet try to cuddle and flirt with when their gf isn't around? I was that girl in HS and afterwards.. Seriously? Am I still that girl? What am I doing that says I'm some type of home wrecker?)
We haven't talked in a week and he texts me last night.
It was really weird. It didn't sound like him at all. I wondered if his gf got ahold of his phone for awhile. It kinda freaked me out. I kinda wanted to know how his weekend at his parents house went, but he wouldn't really answers my questions. Instead he said weird things like "I was just thinking about you" and "I'm trying to flirt with you... help me out here". I asked why he was trying to flirt with me (when he has a gf) and he juss says "I dont know ... I guess I like you" Oy vay. Not this again.
The next question was weirder "Are you lonely and vunerable?" Does that not sound creepy? I'm like 'nope, i'm good' and then this is the response that tells me this is not...the boy I know... something is wrong, he says, "Damn... should I give you another week?" He seriously sounded drunk or something.... what is he talking about? The boy I know does NOT swear, like ever. I swear more than he does. He does not take the time to type out a swear word in text, let alone lazy enough to say it outloud. Is he picking this up from his gf? Is he really not doing that well?
Not to mention that is says something about a boys character when he has a gf and is asking another girl questions like that and/or cuddling and trying to flirt with them, does it not? This says a lot about the boy and frankly makes me feel like I made the right decision.
I have a feeling that almost everything he does from now on is going to make me feel like I've made the right decision to run away.