Well, no offense to any guys out there. But I guess guys are pretty much all the same. If they hurt the girl, we can't get upset oe else guys make us out to be a whack job, turn the stories around to make them look good, and they don't man up and take responsibility for what is going on. I guess trust isn't supposed to be a big deal in a relationship. Evrybody lies right? Who cares if it hurts someone's feelings! Just keep on doing, don't bother respecting the other person and just being honest in the first place. What you guys don't get is that if you were honest in the 1st place then us girls wouldn't be insecure or we wouldn't have our feelings hurt. And I only woke him up cause i was insecure, asked him one question which required one simple HONEST answer, but instead he got all defensive and flipped on me, and said i was ambushing him with questions. Well things are so much worse now. Our relationship is ending with no honesty, no trust, no communication, and now his sister thinks im a whack job cause I got insecure, asked him 1 simple question that required 1 simple honest truth, he couldnt be honest with me.. AGAIN... and he cahnged the story around and told her i'm flipping for a different reason. Then she started flipping on me. Why are guys so good at seeming like theyreso great for so long, they get you to fall for them, then they hurt you and break your heart? I'm hurting so bad I feel like I can't breathe. I made a mistake and let my guard down with a new relationship 8 months ago. Now im back to square 1, only on top of that his familys gonna think im a whack job and his sisters gonna hate me. Word of advice guys- sometimes us girls may get insecure- just be there for her and reassure her. That's all it takes to avoid arguements and hurt feelings. If you really love her, just be honest in the 1st place, respect that she deserves teh honest truth and take responsibility for your relationship. If you make a mistake and really love her, you'll try to fix it. If you really love her, you won't just wallk all over her like a door mat and keep doing the same thing and say sorry every time. If you're really sorry you'll actually put effort into trying to stop making the same mistake again. Don't think you can just take advatage and think you can just get away with it just cause you did the 1st or the 2nd time. that is disrespect and it is not love. We can only take so much. It's been kinda bad the last few days. I havent been eating right or sleeping.It feels like I can't breathe or that I'm going to stop breathing at any moment. My stomach and my chest hurt. I love this guy, I love him so much and it hurts so bad.