Some bad habits when you are talking

Conversation skills can be improved. Although may take some time to change your already entrenched habits, this is possible. The following behaviors are common mistake in daily communication.

Inattention to what others said. Hemingway said: “I love listening to others because I can learn much from what others said, but most people have never listened to others carefully.” So, don't to be the “most people”, don't speak eagerly, and learn to understand what they said truthfully. When you start to listen to others carefully, you will be familiar with the potential meanings. If he don't give you the enough information, you would better avoid ask him simple questions. For example, when he talks about fishing, you may ask him some questions:

Where did you go for finishing?

What else you did except fishing?

The second is asking too many questions. If you ask too many questions in a talk, it seems that you bring him to trial. To avoid this, you would better state your opinions. You may state: “it’s great to go fishing with friends on Sunday, I would like to buy rift gold with my friend on Sunday. Do you know rift plat?”

Are you good at express yourself? There is one point in communication: don't think about what you said, but consider what you will say. There are some ways to make your express attractive.

Slow your speed. We are easy to speak fast when talk about exciting things, but try to slow your speed so that they can hear you clearly.

Be stentorian. Don't be afraid of speaking loudly because they want to listen to you.

Express your feelings. Nobody can bear a same tone speech which is very boring. Express your emotions from voice.

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