Broken and Confused

Feeling: heartbroken
God I have so many things that I want to say, so many feelings I have bottled up inside but I don’t know what to say. So it all starts out like this, my girlfriend and I went out together after my choir concert and we went to Hardee’s for some food so we ordered, started to eat and we were talking about when Brandon comes up which would be tomorrow. Well we talked about it for a while then in this like rude kind of a tone she tells me that she has some bad news for me that Brandon her Best Friend of like 8 years and an ex-boyfriend from like 6 years ago is going to spend the next few night on her floor and I have nothing to say about it and I just have to deal with it. Just the way she said it made me madder then hell. I mean he seems nice and all but the way she said it just drives me nuts. Then on Tuesday she tells me that her brother wont clean out his room so she has to clean her room and again in this mean tone she tells me that Brandon is going to spend like the next few months on her floor in her room. Now someone please tell me that this isn’t just wrong I mean please. Give me advice, tell me what to do. How do I deal with this do I just let it go? People tell me not to, they say I should tell her how I feel and that the whole situation isn’t right, and that he should stay in a different room. But she promises me that everything will be fine and that nothing will happen between them and we wont change. Well here goes day 2 I am looking forward to these next few weeks to see what I should do. College Boy
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Hey : )

Personally, I don't think you shoud worry too much. I mean she has been friends with this dude for eight years and nothing's happened, so I think it's pretty safe.

How long have you and her been together?
hey dude, not a good situation to be in, i can understand how you must be feeling though i havent been in the situation myself, but if i were i would be totally messed up as it seems you are, i think you should just talk to her about it tell her you dont think its right that an ex of hers stays in the same room as her its the kind of thing people who are seeing each other do, maybe you would be better of without her, if hes still her best friend
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its not normal women tend to be blind to how stupid they are when it comes to blokes being jealous or whatever, she cant see how wrong it is for her to share a room with her ex when she is seeing you, just confront her dude, dont tear yourself up about it, she might not be the one for you this could be a sign, just talk to her about it, later dude
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