when you ask a girl out and they dont like you why do they make up an excuse. i mean when i asked a girl out she said she had to go on a trip. i asked her out agian and she had to go on another one which i understood because it was the holiday time. then i asked her the next week and she said no i have a boy friend which was i lie i later found out. why do the girls think that if we think that if they are going on a trip that we will stop. i mean dont they know that just delays it and we will probably ask again? and with other things most girls make it so you have to work to find out things. i mean why do they have to be secretive? just tell us straight out what they mean so we dont screw it up do you agree