I am so fucking MAD!!!!! Here's my father's email to my suggestion that he, my mother, and my future in-laws have dinner together: I tried in my email message below to suggest an alternative to having a dinner with everyone there. I am most interested in meeting Dustin's parents, but, in my opinion, a large dinner isn't conducive to getting to know someone. Additionally, and I didn't express this below because I didn't want to come across as negative, I am not interested in a group dinner that includes your mother. You don't have to agree with or even understand where I'm coming from, but I am hopeful that you will respect my decision. I have no desire to interact or to communicate with your mother and I trust that you'll see that putting us together at the same dinner will make me very uncomfortable. I respect the fact that you have your own opinion of your mother, but please also understand that I do as well. Fuck this god damn ass hole! I am so god-damn furious! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!