ok..i said i wouldnt say anything personal on here but i need a better opinion. ok thur this gurl n were just gonna call her sally. well a long time ago (during tha summer) i 1st seen sally and thought she wus really cute but so did every1 n every1 kept sayin she's a goody so i didnt think i hadda chance w/ her at all. well we skip forward a couple months and me and her 1st meet. its me, sally, sally's friend and my friend..this is when i liked sally's friend and my friend like sally. well we chilled for a while walkin around and had fun and left..nuthin big. well now we skip ahead about 3 more weeks..new classes. well sally end's up in my chuld development class. so me and sally talk more...we start to call each other... we talk online and eventually i take her out on a date..as friends. well after a while i finally ask sally out (knowing i like her and she likes me) and she says "i would but..i gotta get 2 kno u more" so i say ok. now i dont usually spend THIS much time on gurls but..i think this 1 is special. so we talk more share secrets and talk about personal things until the morning on tha phone. now i KNOW she'll say yes, so i ask her again. this time she says "well...im just confused about things in my life right now", so i let her have her space. well after a while we stop talkin and our "lust" die's and we..basically dont talk that much anymore. well skip ahead about 2 weeks. i see her at the mall...and omg she's just so beautiful and i like her SO much so...i go up 2 her and hang out w/ her..sort of knowing there's no chance between me and her but still hoping for sumthing. well after we leave tha mall...i tell my best friend about wut happened and how it MUST be fate how we just randomly seen each other there..and he say's "yea me and her were hangin out right b4 that at the movies..it wus me, her, her best friend and her boyfriend".........so i ask "wow..she has a b/f" n he goes yea..they been goin out for like...a couple months now".....now knowing this i rip up ALL our letters together never call her again and ingore her EVERYTIME she talks to me..feeling betrayed. i mean she led me on for MONTHS knowing she had a boyfriend. now i dont kno about u but...to me thats bogus as hell, but now..im starting to feel bad because we got REALLY close and i just dont kno if its best to continue to ignore her or forgive her and be friends....plz speak ur mind on my problem and recomend diff. thingz..thanx alot..well..thas all for today -Tru