I think that many people have a different perspective on love. But when it starts to get obnoxious and they're telling people what love is and what its not then it's too much. Can't you just let people be happy, just for a moment? A little tiny fraction of the rest of their lives? It won't kill them many people fall in and out of love, many stay in love after all has past, but judging them because they don't do the 'accepted' choice to do after a break up is just plain mean. Maybe they just want to forget all about them not because they never loved them but because it hurts to much to think about them and what should have, would have, or could have happened. I don't want someone to tell me that I was never in love or I'm not in love still just because I'm not crying in school or I'm talking to other guys. I could be crying at home or before I go to sleep, no one will ever know and just because I talk to other guys in school doesn't mean I talk to them on my spare time. Love is love.