I have a theory. about the first kiss. many guys probably don't understand. but to me...the first kiss is incredibly important and should be the most memorable. do you know what the best part about a kiss is? the intensity of the feelings building up to it. its so awaited, expected, wanted, desired. its that anxious, exciting feeling that i want to hold on to forever, or at least as long as i can make it possible. that is why i wait so long before i kiss anyone. most guys rush it. i will never give a kiss when its asked for. thats not something you ask to be given to you. that takes every bit of spontaneity out of it. my idea of the perfect kiss is when it is prolonged and incredibly desired by both people. and the right time comes and you both know in your head, this is it. and when it happens, it is more amazing than anything. because think about it: after that first kiss is over, every single one after that wont be the same. you won't wonder," what is it going to be like?" you won't think to yourself, "is it going to happen now?" basically, those excited feelings you have before the first time you kiss someone will be lost. im not saying that any other kisses besides the first are bad. not at all. im just saying it won't ever be the same. If I want to pursue a relationship with someone, I'll make them wait for the first kiss. because i want to make it amazing and memorable. Most guys will ruin it and try to kiss me right away. whats the rush? the longer the wait, the more intense it will be. I love when it happens unexpectedly. you can't CAN'T plan a kiss. that takes the surprise out of it. I'm still waiting for that guy out there who sees it the same way i do. When I find him, that first kiss will be unforgetable.