Part 1 - Appealing to Others If you are not happy with others, and can not show your love for others, there is something missing in your life. If you have the time to critique everything litte thing and remark about every little thing someone does you obvoiusly are not spending your time wisely. I can really be frustrated with someone, but not put them down, because i know how it would feel if they said that stuff about me, i would certainly not enojoy it, why would they. So just look past that, and think to yourself, if they have so much to say about me, i must be pretty important in their life, and that makes me feel good. Part 2 - Love If you can take the time out of the day, just to say i love you, to that special someone, that is a love worth finding. If you can withstand the little things that that person does, and help them with the major issues, that is love. If you can express yourself to the significant other, without 2nd thoughts or doubts, that is someone worth waiting for. Sometimes what you think could be the best thing in the world, could possibly end up and hurt you the most. Part 3 - Respect Respect is something everyone enjoys. If you show your respect for someone, i'm sure it will get paid back to you for the best later on. Being nice to people can be a really great thing. They tend to trust you more, have respect for you, and will kno that you are not someon who deserves to be treated like shit. Going out of your way to help someone out can easily be returned in a favor. When you are a jerk, people tend to label you as "preps, jocks, etc." you maybe have a few close friends, but i bet they would turn their back on you at anyminute if they wanted to. True friends, respectfiul friends, stick around forever.