all i can tell u is tell her that it's really bothering u and that u don't like what she is doing. if she changes then u can be happy but if she doesn't then just tell her that she needs to stop keeping things from you. if things don't change then come back.
..when i confronted her she deleted them so i never got to read them but later on i asked her if they were about me and she said yes after she stayed quite for about 2 mins
..and she is also angry that i am asking you for advise..lol i think that it is really funny! thanks4 the advise i'll b back mayb