Dear Stephanie, I have just gotten off the phone with you and the other members of the outdoors club. I had a tough situation brought into my life. I was sitting in my room having dinner when my dorm room phone rang. It was you, and you had a proposition for me. You asked me to drive you home from the whitewater rafting adventure. I said everything but no. That is what I saw happen, now my dialogue. I was put in my room having dinner alone so I could get the phone call. I never eat alone, or in my room, but there was a higher power placing me in that situation. I was forced to not only make a decision, but to see myself as powerful enough to say no, and to see you as a powerful person to trust my answer. This situation will only lead to growth. Growth in my life, and in yours. I see the need to be honest, and to tell the truth in every situation. I see growth in you too. I see our relationship strengthen. A relationship built out of nessesity. I see that you have much to teach me about being a way that I necessarily have to act like. I would like to be a more mature person, and the only way I see myself getting there right now is with your help. I hope that the car ride back will be fun, because along with being my life mentor, you are also my deepest friend. Yours truly, Reid Lavoie