i just found out yesturday when i was talking with my eight year old brothers friend who is 13 and to me my bro's friend was hitting on my over the phone but thats not the point what i found out is that my friend paul is going around the neighborhood and telling all that he knows and hangs out with that we are going out and i was shocked by this because he was the one who told me that we were going to keep this a secret for a little while because my father was not to happy when i called and asked for my friend because my father answered the phone and of course i dont live with him so when i asked for him my father wanted to know why i was asking for him and at the time ididnt know what to say because me and my friend just started to go out that week and i didnt know if i should tell him or not and so what i didi was i just said that i wanted to talk to him as a friend and then my father said that i should not even talk to him even as a friend he said that all he would do was get me in to trouble and now that i found out that he told people he wont talk to me and i found out that he is not talking to any body he is not even talking to his own brother so i try to get all of my info for his bro when i can but the thing i dont get is shouldnt he tell me things before he tells the whole town that does know me? at least i thing he should shouldnt he? i need some answers!!!