Well let's see my "guy" said he doesn't want me to go into the NAVY he wants me to wait here for him to go into the NAVY and do his thing and when he gets done he'll come back and we'll get married but I dont want to fuck up my life plans!! and I don't know what to do about it I love him more then anything and I do want to be with him but I want to make a life for myself just to be safe ... more on this later