hey girls... don't be afraid to use lube during sex. the moisture adds boost sensation, no matter how hot you're feeling. rub the lube onto your inner thighs and have your guy slide his penis in and out between your legs before he actually enters you. the teasing will help you get even more into the mood also. during oral look up at the guy and lock eyes. because he is probably looking down at you. when you give them a sexy stare it turns them on even more! talk about using a vibrator together. you never know it just might be fun and new. whether you use it on yourself or have him use it on you, you're bound for a good time. you can try penis rings that fits around the base of a guys penis. this ring helps the guy have a harder longer lasting erection. so the vibrations also enhance your pleasure.there are a lot of vibrators out there. so there are many to choose from. just find one that you like best. have fun! and remember use protection! love desiree