Well, my parents have finally decided that they want to go back to NY. Something that has been indefinite for about a year now. I am so confused, I have two lives to choose from, one here and one in NY. Im so lost, and Im trying to be the one in the family who is strong and Im kind of losing my strength. I am just really confused right now, I dont know what to do. I mean what can you do when you have no strength left?