It all started on new years Called my best friend to wish her happy new years She put this guy on the phone. He was drunk off his mind but I had a little chat with him. Hes sooo funny, and really sweet. However, now everyone wants to plan this date night thing. Its four guys, four girls. thing is, all the girls are interested in one of the guys, and vice versa. Two of em are even dating. everyone has someone they like from the other group that likes them back They’ve all met each other, hung out a bunch of times together, and even got drunk together. Ive never met this new guy They want to set us up tho I don’t think hes hot, but he is really sweet and funny too But still. I was talking to my best friend on msn and shes like “well u guys can share a couch at my house when were watching movies, if you want to cuddle.” im like, WHAT? Never met the kid yet, and u want me to go all cutesy and cuddle up with him?? I feel like im loosing them, two of the girls (one being my best friend, the other a long time/really good friend), because theyre always with the country guys now, theyre busy with their couples. If I go out with the new guy, then I can go hang out with all of them too, and not feel like a 7th wheel. But is it worth it? I feel pressured too, cuz I don’t wanna loose the girls. But I don’t think I really like the new guy that much right now, in that way at least, to start dating him. And the girls are so gung ho on me meeting him, and setting me up with him. Theyre so excited because they think that we’ll start dating, and then everyone can hang out together. I don’t have the heart to tell em that I probably wouldn’t end up dating the new guy, least not in the immediate future. Its hopeless :( what do i do?