1-- Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 2-- Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. 3-- Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. 4-- When you say, "I love you," mean it. 5-- When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. 6-- Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 7-- Believe in love at first sight. 8-- Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much. 9-- Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. 10-- In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. 11-- Don't judge people by their relatives. 12-- Talk slowly but think quickly. 13-- When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" 14-- Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 15-- Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. 16-- When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 17-- Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions. 18-- Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 19-- When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 20-- Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. 21-- Spend some time alone.