hey all thanks for all the advice. I brokeup with him yesterday after I found out he was useing me. But I guess there are other fish in the sea, (but who would want to date a fish anyway?) LOL now im free to flirt all I want and I'm just gonna wate till a guy ask's me out so I don't have to go threw all the troubble of him useing me and I'll know he actually likes me, and it's not just me liking him. :P