really I wanted the mood apathetic but it's not on the list...perhaps some day Scott. Well I talked to the guy last night about how i felt and asked him what his feelings were. he never answered. I didn't know what to think I really wish he could have just been like no I don't like you or yes I do. I mean I did even tell him along with everything that I didn't expect anything I just wanted to know what he thought b/c i like him can't read minds. Arg. But whatever I talked to a friend about it last night he said he's trying to figure out a to word things so that he stays in control. Give him some time and try to call him tonight to talk about it. But other wise let him come to me when he's ready. He told me to relax and that I didn't do any damage to my friendship with him. Amazingly I trust him with any relationship advice. Why do you ask? b/c he's always, i repeat always right never once was he ever wrong about any relationship I have been in and it's advice. So lets see how it goes this time. He said putting the ball in his court was going to be the fastest way for him to come around. While letting me find other guys...lol