Why does it seem that love never sticks? You see these people and you start talking them and think to yourself about how happy they seem and how you wish that you could be that happy. And then, it turns out, there are problems. Not just normal problems like he forgot to take out the trash and she didn't buy the right kind of toilet paper, but deep emotional problems that aren't fixable. Where am I going with this? I have a destination for once.
Andrea, my best friend, has been having a tough life. She's the friend that I always go to for my biggest problems. I normally don't go to Kourt because she hadn't been through depression and wasn't quite able to understand. But Kourtney and I both have dubbed Andrea's house as our second home. I even call her parents Mom and Dad and I love them to pieces. I got that they were having problems. I could tell.
But she asked him to move out by the end of next week! How? Why? I don't understand. I mean, they had their share of problems but I always thought they'd love each other. This sucks. It's like my own family. My dad sleeps in the basement because it's the closest he can get to moving out without ACTUALLY moving out. My guess is because it's cheaper.
I just don't get it. I mean, you make vows. When you say "I do" it means forever. People aren't supposed to split up. It shouldn't be happening. And that's exactly what's happening! It makes me sad.
And Andrea was contemplating not going to college next year so she could stay home and help out. She'd obviously be miserable and she shouldn't have to. As much as I don't want her going for my own selfish reasons of missing her, I don't want her to stay here and be a parent. It's not her responsibility.
Love is just supposed to be unbreakable. Once you fall in love, it shouldn't be allowed that you fall back OUT of love. No! You're supposed to look at your partner and see their beauty despite their weaknesses. And you shouldn't have to fall anywhere away from that. If she drinks too much, work through it. If he works too much, SAY something. Don't just let it go on and on until there's nothing there. That's not good. That's not good for either person in the couple, it's not good for their children, and it's not good for Kourtney and me. Dammit they should be happy together!
Read 0 comments