Have you ever had 2 choices, which you both seem to want equally... each have their plusses and minuses? Well, I have just that. I have 2 things laid perfectly in front of me, 2 things I've wanted for... the better part of a year now... laid out nicely in front of me, as is they'd been dumped in my lap. Well, then I just cannot possibly choose. See, the problem here, is the fact that each choice comes with it consequences that have to do with the other choice. If I choose one, I may never get the choice again, but if I chose the other, well, I could talk myself in circles for hours. Basically, this is another guy problem... It's so hard... In all reality, I could pick either one and be happy.... right? wrong. While I would be happy with my choice either way, I'd still wonder, what if.... what if I had picked the other guy? what if I hadn't picked anyone at all? There's just too many variables. Currently, I am afraid of what I might be doing, if it might drive one or the other away... I'm so stuck... I just have no idea what is going on.. what have I gotten myself into? Choices are the worst sometimes... And, how is it, that whenever I want something, and long for it, it takes so long to come... but when it finally does, it's so complicated, I almost wish it hadn't happened at all? Blah. If you have the answers, please share.