I dont normally preach, but you should read what i have to say... You'll see i'm not like most!! Now most people think its "cool" to be pregnant in highschool... WTF! My friend just planned & got herself pregnant and shes in the 10th grade... How can people be SO stupid? Yes i got pregnant at 17 & had my son at 18, yes i am 20 and pregnant again, i'll be 21 before this baby is born tho, yay! People need to realize that i am struggiling to live day-2-day... If it wasnt for my parents, my son & I wouldnt have a roof over our heads & sometimes we wouldnt have food on our plates... Having a baby might be "cool" but they grow up, they arent babies for long! They get to be 2 where all they do is cry & throw fits when they dont get their way... I wont deny that having kids is fun & rewarding but its so much hard work!! Both of my children were concieved wile i was taking birthcontrol... There was a small factor i didnt know till i already had gotten preggie and that is: antibiotics counteract birthcontrol People say "i dont feel as much with a condom on so i like it bare" well gee if you always wore a condom you wouldnt know the differance!!! You could always stop having sex for about a month then go back WITH a condom and trust me it'll feel just as good cuz ur gettin some & by then ur body will forget the differance!! My main preach is if you get pregnant in high school do not and i repeat DO NOT drop out!! I did, it took me so long to get my GED cuz i was too lazy wile preggie & too busy taking care of my child after he was born... My son was a year and a half old, i waited 3 years **big mistake** to go take it... tho i passed it doesnt matter i was lucky!! I dont condone accidental pregnancy, it happens. I do however condone those who plan to get pregnant because they want a baby not thinking ahead!! the earlier you start having sex the sooner you'll end up like me, the special moment you should share with your husband will be nothing because sex isnt anything to you anymore, its just another thing to do on a list of "todo's" after the wedding... Dont end up like me! Change before its too late!! I do have a question for ya... Do you know what it is like to go thru a pregnancy, birth, and then raising a child on your own? No? Well i do, lemme tell u i dont think i can do it again, but here i am, yes this time i have a man that stuck around but its not the same... Hes not there for me... I know if we waited until we were married 2 accidently become preggerz that things would be different, but as it stands hes excited but pissed...