Ok, here is the deal. I honestly do not know what to do. I know it is not going to help anyone to scream or scold, so I won't. Honestly though, why can't we all just quit being stuck up. Look, we ALL have our fears, insecurites, etc. They are ours, and only to manifest themselves in self improvement and the counsel of others. Sam, Todd, Jenny, stop. Stop right now and forget it. You are all lieing, gossiping, backstabbing. I have done it too and I regret it. Can we please just let this go? Todd, you seriously need to be quiet. You deserve much for your cruel and unthinking comment on Sam's family. Jenny, I wish you would just explain what your deal is. I mean honestly, I ask you to and you do not other then " blah blah, angry, toddd is evil." That is not an explanation, that is a motive, and an unjust one at that. Sam, you need to learn to not talk behind peoples back so much. I have done it too, and feel bad about it. If you don't like Todd tell people who share your interest, not me, I ma still his friend. I have see these two sides fight and quarrel with me mediating, sometimes openly, sometimes secretly. YES, secretly. I know, you are probably really mad buthtink about this: I saw you guys fight SO bitterly and I had to solve it! But it was unclear how to act, and my attempt failed. So when I tried again I had to lie to keep my motive hidden till the right moment when it was fixed. Still, it failed. So here I am now, realizing that I am just twisting the knife when I try to pull it out. Sam, Jenny, yo uare being mean and do not have any right whatsoever to say and do things about Todd and no reason, personal or religious will justify it. Let go. Todd, you are the victim here, but you are doinga really bad job. YOu insulted Sam's entire family. You denifintely were very wrong and should apologize. Sam's family is just firm and their beliefs and you should respect that. Such sureness, whether correct or misplaced, is a rare asset. They cannot truly affect you so just let it roll off your back. Lastly, for myself, I was even more wrong that all of you and am truly sorry. Anyone who is angry at me, I totally understand. Just remember I wa only trying to fix it without friction and I made a mistake. I wanna say sorry to Jenny,for being jerk. Sorry to Sam and his family, for not being there. Sorry to Todd for ever involving other people in the first place. Sorry.