Im a bad girl...

So I'm sort of seeing this guy right now and it's a really strange situation cause my ex is rapidly coming back into the picture. All those old feelings are coming back that I felt for my ex but this current guy is great as well. So I don't exactly know what I should do or how I should handle both these guys. This current guy has strong feelings of hate towards my ex cause of how he hurt me back when we were dating. But I firmly believe that he's changed for the better. A couple of nights ago I went and hung out with him for more that four hours just talking and catching up on things. It was just like old times but better. I'm afraid of really damaging this current guy if I tell him I don't want to further anything in the relationship status. Any opinions?
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Personally, I would weigh up the situation very carefully. The newbie is great and looks out for you obv (hence the hating of your ex) so thats sweet.

The oldie might be great now, because he's trying to get back in. And you know he's been an arse before.

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the same thing happened to me. i went back to my ex and in the end it didnt work out. there was a reason you broke up in the first place and im not trying to be pessimistic but itll probably come back eventually. and then youll regret losing the other guy too

hope that helped either way!