Im so sad...... i really like this guy at my school named tony and ppl keep telling me things. The one and only thing i care about most is that he is GAY. I just keep trying to tell myself that it's not true..... that ppl r trying to trick me and trying to upset me. i could for sure find out if he is...... my best friend is really good friends with him and she's gonna talk to him for me, but i'll just tell her to find out if he is really gay. Do u think i should find out for myself or tell my friend to find out?