just some stuff that reminds me of cocoa, or how i feel right now one of the oldest human needs is having someone to wonder where you are when you don't come home at night. - margaret mead when you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight -kahil gibran you cant be brave if you've only had wonderful things happen to you - mary tyler moore The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.- Martin Luther King Jr. It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remembre sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace -chuck palahniuk Maybe were not supose to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful is recognizing what you have for what it is, appreciating small victories admiring the strugle it takes simply to be human. Maybe we're thankful for the familar things we know and maybe we're thankful for the things we will never know. At the end of the day the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate. -Grey's Anatomy