Maybe you don't go to hell for the things you do. Maybe you go to hell for the things you don't do. The things you don't finish. Nobody wants to admit this, but bad things will keep on happening. Maybe that's because it's all a chain, and a long time ago someone did the first bad thing, and that led someone else to do another bad thing, and so on. You know, like that game where you whisper a sentence into someones' ear, and that person whispers it to someone else, and it all comes out wrong in the end. But then again, maybe bad things happen because it's the only way we can keep remembering what good is supposed to look like -Jodi Picoult, Nineteen Minutes The only way of knowing a person is to love them without hope. -Walter Benjamin You change for two reasons. Either, you learn enough that you want to or you've been hurt enough to have to