i just read that girls diary for the first time ever, and it made me mad, not her words, but words that were said to her from a "friend" its evident that the girl who writes in her diary is one of the most amazing people out there. and i barely know her...but i know she cares so much, about everyone and everything and that despite the things taht bother her and seem to be "flaws" her heart is pure...like snow...like gold...and no friend should tell you to change, no friend would say "do something for something else for once" because why should you? not saying you should be selfish but dont do things for people just to ease ur conscious. dont help someone just so u can say "i helped him or her" do when its the right time, the right place, the right person. becasue all that matters is that ur heart is in the right place when it happens...and maybe, just maybe, we all DO NEED to be selfish and stop trying to fix everyone elses problems and focus on others' lifes. look at ur own life and get it together. stop pointing fingers at people and saying "that girl/boy is sooo messed up, they neeed help, im going to be their savior" why dont u just try having a friendship...?? so please girl, dont feel bad about things, you are beautiful, youre smart adn kind and probably one of the nicest people i have ever met. youre a gem...shinny and bright.