Hey... ok. Lots to say. Guess you could call them opinions. For one thing, i dont make anyone's decisions for them. I dont think it matters too much what people say about other people, even when they aren't there and even when you only talk to them in school. I mean, its easier to blame other people than to blame yourself, and if you were entirely truthful in the first place, what other people say and what other people think shouldnt matter all that much, should it? Thats allright then. No one was telling anyone what to think (im speaking completely generally of course). And if things got stirred up, im not holding myself or brady responsible. It's not our issue, nothing was invaded...and we happen to care about what happens to him in the long run. Sometimes things just dont work out. And maybe they do. And maybe forcing people to change isnt something that should be done...and really ive seen a lot of people playing with other people's hearts, and it tears me up because its...very unfair. I wish everyone would just be honest in the first place - then the blame wouldnt lie anywhere. -TINE