oh! sophia! I am so sorry! I hope TJ is okay! I never thoguth about wut it must feel like to have a family memeber across seas! then again that si also because i dont have any family members across seas! :-/ I really hope he is ok! he's a funny guy! everytime you mention him i think of the photos you showed us of him playing with all the controls and guns and equipment! lol thatw as funny! I hope he's ok! For the sake of your family and of him of course I wouldn't want anything to happen to your family and i wouldn't want anyhting to happen to him! I really REALLY hope everything turns out good! :-) :-/ luv ValErIe