how long should take a person to get over someone if they went for nine months?
a month, two?
and what if they kiss ocassionally, but it's obvious they won't go back out.
maybe three?
what if it's your first love?
i'm not sure, but this seems a bit overexagerated. how could you still be healing after almost a year?
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you must have a bad conception of what love is if you think love and hate are that close together.
take different times to get over people
maybe there isn't a "should be around ___" because people are different and some people just can't get over other's easily
maybe it doesn't matter about how long they went out for either
maybe it just depends on what type of relationship it was
and how they felt for eachother
maybe they can't help it
so maybe it can't be overexagerated
because...it's real.
it wouldn't matter if i was involved or not. shit gets around, and i'm definitely not the only person involved.
i'm not even going to try and understand what the last sentence of your comment means.