hey well iw ent to a funeral this weekend and its been driving me nuts! i dont get how u go from having everything to nothing ya know u dedicate ur WHOLE life to this one person u make vows to be with this person till "Death do us part" ur not 2 people married ur one person together ya know he completes u u complete him u wake up to his face every mornin ya know u get kisses and hugs and ther ur everything how do u move on!? i mean uv been with this one person for more than 50 years!!! and u do everything together, i mean u make a family! that family makes ther own family! how do u go on with ur days having everything changed now, no more kisses, no more i love you's, no more hugs, no more romantic dinners together, nothing. i just dont get how u adjust to that, how do u continue ur days knowing that, that person isnt ther nemore, no1 to comfort u, no1 to hold u when ur crying, no1 to be ur everything. ther just gone. and u gotta go on with life like its normal??? i dont know how she will do it, but she has my sympathy, n when i looked at her, she had the most saddest eyes i have ever seen. n i just cried n cried. i couldnt stop i felt so much for her i felt her pain i couldnt imagine being in that situation, n i hope i never have to, i would never EVER do that to my husband if i ever have one lol but its beside the point i just dont get how u can go from being happy n having everything in front u of you, to being the saddest u ever been, n having nothing, having it all disappear, how do u go on from that?? i just dont know.