so this is my list. i will find him one day. someone comfortable. quiet. confident. loving. loves his parents. has a job and a car. knows his future. intelligent. is optimistic. likes animals. smiles a lot. intellectual. can talk to me about anything. shows emotion. doesn't lie. caring. likes to read. appreciates art. likes poetry. has a great smile. is open with me. likes nature. understands me. doesn't hold things against me. laughs with me. doesn't judge me. gives me flowers. always wants to hold my hand. loves music. is sensitive yet strong. doesn't label himself. doesn't give into trends. isn't still attached to old girlfriends. is able to love me. takes things slow. doesn't lie. lays with me. isn't perfect and doesn't care. can carry a conversation. doesn't use drugs. likes to learn. this isn't complete. this isn't manatory. this is simply what i love. that's all. much love.