Well,we had a talk.
It wasn't exactly what I hoped it would be but you can't expect a teenager to understand any responsible adult's position. Especially when said teenager has never had any responsibilities of their own. She didn't even go to high school so I should know better.
I got home yesterday, after having to go back up to the airport to pick Phillip up because he missed his flight, and the guys were there. It was about 7:30ish and attitude was thrown at me from the moment I walked in the house. So I calmly asked her upstairs so we could talk.
The talked lasted MAYBE 2 minutes before she got loud and started running her mouth.
I asked how long the guys were going to be there and when they got there. After she told me that I told her I wasn't comfortable with them staying the night (not that I wasn't comfortable with them being there) and she got upset with me.
As soon as a penis is involved she goes nuts and can't control herself.
Not to mention that she lets all these different dudes disrespect her and I don't like that, considering that I see her as my best friend.
Now, I'm not sure what's going to happen.
She got mad and completely threw a fit because those guys were there so I left.
As we were leaving she was steadily running her mouth so I called her mom and let her know that I wasn't going to stay there last night and I'm not sure how much longer I'm going to be staying there now that this has happened. I really didn't want to involve her mom, I figured it would be something we could both handle as adults. Boy was I wrong. That girl has so much growing up to do. And she's not a bad person by any means and she hasn't been a bad friend until recently. I don't know what's gotten into her and I try to talk to her as a friend and a human being but last night she was not cooperating. And maybe I shouldn't have said anything to her and I should have just let her do her own thing but I really wasn't comfortable with the situation.
Now there's drama for no reason when all she could have done was just say, "I understand."
I guess the drama is that neither of us got our way but in the end, she did.
She "won" that round, but it wont be the last. I'm tired of her thinking she can just walk all over me and talk down to me simply because a dude was involved. A dude she JUST met at that.
I don't understand kids these days.