it amazes me that some people will just think that somebody's changed... People Don't Change. It's as simple as that. Jerks will be jerks, Cheaters are going to cheat, Liars are going to hide, and the ones that hide in holes aren't going to emerge. the only thing that will change a person is something tragic in their lives. like seeing someone die, or a near death expirence, or maybe a heartbreak. Otherwise the person has no reason to stop. Love isn't going to change anyone. Love may be a persuader... but it sucks at it. if a person changes. it won't be willingly