This is it.....this is final for me...no more helping people without them knowing my new golden rule. I'm sick of helping people and them getting attached to me and wanting to date or worse. Therefore, from now on, I will help anyone who needs it and is willing to accept my help on one condition. Don't get attached unless I tell you I like you....I of course mean this with no offense to anyone I have helped in the past...I just feel a need for change.