I am so glad I know exactly who I am, I have great friends, i have a great family. I dont' get joy out making other people feel small. I don't talk behind peoples backs and I don't feel bad about myself. I know that I am not a loser who just smokes pot and drinks. I have so much more to offer and the people I care about know that. I love my life and I am so confident with who I am. I am tired of people treating people like shit to make others feel bad. The people who try to do that are so small themselves and the get power out of lowering self esteems. I hope you get some confidence....cause you don't have it:) mucho love peeps. -Maggie