Yeah, so once again, my husband and I are arguing. Oh look at that, big fucking suprise! I am beginning to not want to be around him at all. Ok, so the whole thing tonight was I asked him if he wanted to go to Lacey with me when we got off of work (we got off at the same time) to go get my new hire packet for the furniture store and he said he didn't want to go because he wanted to come home and get his shit ready for tomorrow. So that was cool I understood, that way we could spend the rest of the evening together. Well, I get home about 45 minutes later and his ass isn't home yet so I call him and ask him where he is and he tells me that he stopped off at Auto Zone to look at a couple of things, one of which is a headlight for his car. Well he doesnt get paid until Friday so we can't get it until then anyway, but even if he was just checking the price, it would have taken about two seconds and not to mention, that could have been done by phone. So he comes home and we're not talking and we get into it again, so he's leaving to go meet his friend for a copy of windows xp...and he's just supposes to go meet him and then come straight home. Well, about an hour passes so I call him to find out where he is and he says hes over at this dudes house cause I didn't believe that he was just gonna meet him and come home, so he decided to stay there (now I received this information after having to call three times because the first two he hung up on me and the first time he hung up on me I heard the little alarm that goes off when you have your door open and your keys are in the ignition). So I say Fine, then I'm gonna go do what you don't believe I haven't done (which is cheat on him) and I hang up on me. He tries to call me back about six or seven times and each time I answer and hang up on him. So yeah, that's where I stand right about now with his ass. I was talking to Nicole and she's having trouble with her husband who is a selfish asshole who never gets her anything and everything is about him and whatever he wants. She is so upset that she's not going home right now, she's over at a friend's house. She made the comment that it seems like we're pissed off at our husbands more than we are happy with them and it sucks to say that it is true. I am just so unhappy right now....I have no idea what to do. How much is enough? When have you tried enough? How long do you stand beside the person you love? When do you cross the line of being there for that person into the line of stupidity? I ask because I fear that I am dangerously close to crossing that line; actually I'm afraid I have already crossed it. What do you think? Would you stay any longer or would you leave?