I have begun to notice the difference in men today. Just by looking at my own past experiance I have had them all. The nice guy, the jock strap, the rebelious bad ass, the book warm... but thats not what I have been thinking about. Going back to the guys I dated in Jr high, which some have become close friends of mine but others not so much. Most of the guys I dated were genuenlly nice to an extent. JR high they followed us around & walked me to class it was cute then. Then in high school for the begining to me it was pretty much the same. Then I had the long term guy. He was polite, caring & almost perfect. sometimes opened doors & pulled out chairs. Always came to my door to pick me up. Rarely a dick. After him It was like down hill for guys! The ones I went out with never really got past the first date. I even had one honk from out side & when i didnt come he called to say, "hey im outside lets go!" Im sorry but ooo no. That was it for him. I dont come to a honking horn what ever happend to coming to the door??? The next one was almost worse! Seriously is chivalry dead?? What happend to opening & closing doors? Or coming in to pick up your date? Is a honking car horn what tomarrows daughters have to look forward to on a date? And tomarrows parents to dread??