than words. Someone says that all the time... Then she casts judgment and stones on someone who is trying her hardest to raise a child by herself (with nothing but discouragment from the fathers family) and turns around and talks mess on the internet no less. Well, what about these actions? I quit dancing. I go to church every Sunday. I send money and loyally visit the father of my child at a penetentary. I am very persistant in TRYING to create a relationship with his family, who do nothing but condemn and be mean and malicious. AND AFTER ALL THAT, I still pray for them. THEN consider these actions. She has a "friend" going through some positive changes and she bashes her for it. She tells her she is "crying wolf" and that she is probably still titty-dancing. Instead of saying "Brandy, I am proud of you." She says "Whatever, Brandy, actions speak louder than words! Na Na Na Na Boo Boo! Stick your head in DooDoo! And I hope I hurt your feelings." She is mean to this person and hurts her feelings on purpose. But what does this other person do? She turns to her and says I LOVE YOU. And I will pray for you. Yeah actions DO speak louder than words... now don't they SAM?