just a thought that came across my mind.... if I wouldn't have started to bring up my concerns in my last relationship, that I feel neglated and 'put-aside' as a boyfriend, it wouldn't have been a very honest relationship in the first place. Its not like I could just continue with all these thoughts on my head, things that appeared problematic to me, and act like nothing is wrong. lol - if THATS an acceptible way of dating, then good luck to you rae, and anyone else who feels that way. 'Brushing the problems aside...' yea...niiiiice go.