so, I didn't kill him. just cried a little and talked things out. he did mention that he has a ring though. but he's waiting for the oportune moment. He told me he had one thinking it would calm my worries, but now I'm just like 'Give it to me damn it!' everytime he moves I think he's gonna ask. See? this is why I don't want to know stuff like that. I want it all to be a suprise. ALL of it. He still is learning that. (he's not a fan of suprises.) we've been working out for a week and a half! go us! ooo...job interview to be ESL teacher...wish me luck!