So I decided to check this chick out who left me a comment, and I am sorry if I seem hypocritical on this one, but I wrote a couple entries a few days ago and today you (loucille) left me a comment. You talk about it being a proven fact? Where did you get all these "proven facts"? Unless you've graduated super early and already have your degree in Psychology don't tell me "it's a proven fact...". I don't know where you got that from, and maybe it is true.....for most people, but it isn't necessary. People don't have to act that way, it is a choice they choose to make; just like you choose to be bisexual and atheist. What "judgements" one makes are totally by choice. They can be there or they can be absent it is ones choice.