it's funny how much a few words and a flame can make you think... have you ever watched a flame? they are so still and calm...that is when no one else is around with the room still and nothing going on. but once people start moving and the wind starts blowing, they begin to flicker and sometimes go out. it's kinda like life in a way. our light shines brightly when we're alone and things are calm... but often times when stuff starts happening, we let our light get blown out.