21 LESSONS THAT SHOULD BE LEARNED ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it. FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much. NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives. TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: R espect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions. EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone. HONEST QUOTES When you lose someone, you realize just how much that person means to you, So maybe its a good thing they're gone. So you can see just how much that person means to you. -Anonymous " i had the whole world in my hands but i gave it away" "lets toast till we die" "Even If It Kills Me, I'm Gonna Smile." In a world of nonsense, everything something is, it isn't, everything it would be wouldn't, and everything it wasn't, was. Love will die if held to tightly, love will fly if held to lightly. People can live one hundred years without really living a minute. "reality is an illusion created by lack of alcohol "You never see the bad days in a photo album but it’s those days that get us from one happy snapshot to the next." Do not envy the one you admire most, instead, try to make yourself one that can be envied -"Love starts with a hug, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear!" "Some people walk in the rain, others just get wet" - Roger Miller Sticks and stones are hard on bones, aimed with angry art words can sting like anything, but silence breaks the heart... -Phyllis mcgenlee "Love is like a war, easy to begin, hard to end" If the sky were to suddenly open up, there would be no law, there would be no rule. There would only be you and your memories. Today's Message of the Day is: Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here we should dance