Why must everything be done according to tradition and rules? I mean i'm thinking of relationships, education and work, lifestyles all of this. Why must we label everything and everyone? Whenever we label something, then whatever we label becomes whatever title we created. Why can two people not be completely wrapped up in each other yet they go out with other people with out a title ( boyfriend/girlfriend) but it is completely taboo to do the same with a title. this seems like it is no rue emotion and campassion, and passion for that person. If it takes a title to constitute fidelity then you have nothing. Maybe this whole system is just a hortcut but i dont like it. it leaves to many open opportunities for someone being fake. Giveme something real, whether in tangible form or not, just something real and true. Things such as this must exist but thet become increasingly difficult to find.